CONFIDENT: As is our confidence so is our capacity. Confidence is one of the most beautiful things we possess. Be confident of yourself and for that accountability is the key. A person cannot be comfortable without its own approval. Remember there is a thin line which takes you to become over confident or unconfident and we don’t want either of them.
HEADSTRONG: Know yourself and know what you want. Half of the people do not even know what they actually want, and this leads to Frustration, unhappiness, and dissatisfaction. Be wilful and determined in your actions, do not be a headstrong fool and run into dangers without any thoughts about oneself rather be a headstrong person who practices what they know. remember there is a thin line which takes you to become stubborn or obstinate and we don’t want either of them.
OPEN MINDED: Be receptive to understand without caring to be right or wrong. Open mind is an impartial mind. It enhances wisdom and intelligence which facilitates oneself to be free of illusions , superiority, and inferiority complexes.
CHANGE: Change your moods, feelings , emotions like the way we change our clothes. The moment you feel that a particular state of the mind is not helping you , change the state. Do not let anybody decide how you feel, do not give the remote control of your feelings in the hands of others, know how to regulate your emotions.
This is called Emotional Intelligence.
LEARNER: Be a great learner. Get inspired by all beautiful things around you. Everything or everybody around us teaches us something. As a famous Punjabi phrase ” Sarh na Rees kar” , do not be jealous emulate instead . Never stop learning because there is always one more thing to learn as life never stops teaching.
APPRECIATIVE: Appreciate everything what you have and appreciate good things around you. If you see something beautiful and stunning , please appreciate. One of the great emotional needs of every person is to be appreciated. Imagine if you fulfill this need by appreciating others of something genuinely nice, it would do wonders for the recipient, and you would feel wonderful too.
TANGIBLE: Real is rare, be genuine be real. Never forget your roots that is be a freshwater and not snowflakes. Do not pretend for what you are not. The biggest power is being you yourself because nobody can be you. Every individual is unique for a reason . Celebrate and trust this uniqueness.
EARNEST: Be always respectful towards others irrespective of colour, cast, nationality, status in society etc. Respect everybody whom you meet in the journey of your life and include only those who match up with your vibrations. After all it is all about exchange of energies and with those who vibe well shall gel well. This makes one free of judgements and discrimination.